A self-perpetuating cycle.
A distorted reality that derives its strength from the oppressive mindsets still in place despite our freedoms. You and I are not the problem at all.
We may have more freedoms than our foremothers, but our burden remains disproportionately, oppressively heavy. We scrubbed our clothes in the streams while Sex girls Auckland uk at splashing toddlers wpnts mourning the latest loss of love or life.
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We wove, sewed, GGrand-Bornand, tidied, or mended while swapping stories and minding our aging grandmothers. Village life inherently fostered a sense of safety, inclusivity, purpose, acceptance, and importance. These essential elements of thriving were built in.
How does an entire nation of mothers shift a storyline this massive while individually and collectively weakened by the absence of the very thing we so desperately need?
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In the meantime, each of us has a choice to make: We can buy into, make peace with, and conform to the way things are, or exercise the freedoms our foremothers and fathers won for us and commit to doing our unique and essential part in creating change, starting within us and working our way out. THAT is the energy needed to create change.
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Find yourself, then find your people. Or do it the other way around.
On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing. Thank you for this wonderful summary of the challenges we face.
For putting a name on it! I started my blog just under two weeks ago to share my own challenges, and reach out to struggling moms. Thank you, Nikki, both for your kind words, and for your part in connecting the mamas!
It matters so much. As I was writing my FB comments, it occurred to me that I have not given myself permission for help. Believing I must do it all myself. Not wanting to feel a burden to others.
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Not wanting to be perceived as needy, dependent or unfit. What a weight these thoughts have placed on my shoulders. Thank you, Beth, for bringing them to my awareness. Only in the light of awareness do we have the ability to make a different choice. Thank you for shining your light so I could see myself iSngle.
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Blessings Sister! I talk about a component of this in my blogpost: Keep up the great work! Thank you, Becca. I completely agree that we need much more encouragement to build our support networks in preparation for having children. Thank you for doing your part!
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And it even makes up for the time that the true expressing of your soul is frowned upon, misunderstood or roll-eyed at. Wonderful article, thanks so much for putting this is words that can be shared!
Thank you, Natalie! I agree that tribe building is both extremely hard and extremely satisfying, in the end. I am feeling this so much right now. I am tapped out and really lacking in support.
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Can you Sintle that that is my problem? Said politely, sure, but still no. I feel ready to give up though. I have to go bc my kids need me.
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I responded to your babysitting question earlier, and then a bunch of comments and my responses were lost. Did you receive it via email? If not, I will be happy to respond again.
Many blessings to you, and keep at it, friend! Your tribe is out there!! I have found that women are much more likely to ask for help if you have asked for help first.
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I see the effects of it in other moms I come into contact with and it is easy to see the negative consequences of it in our society. Thank you, Elizabeth. The lack and emptiness you speak of is all too common. All the best to you as you find your people and foster those connections.
And, what's with the obsession with insisting single mothers are still Because, really, who the fuck wants to actually talk to a single mother. Don't you know the world's going to end in only a few more years? But, anyway , the future is like toilet paper. By that I don't mean my parents were in the scene and thought I'd look cute with a Mohawk, I went there without a single friend in the world and went home with a million of them. To me they're fucking grand. I'm a single mom, and I live with my two boys, ages five and seven, all by myself. I' ve become adept at managing the day-to-day routine alone.
Hi Beth, I think this is a moving and interesting post, and I enjoyed it quite a lot. But I would say that its not just mothers that have the biggest struggle— its all women.
Its hard to make an inclusive, sensitive argument about value and being a village without acknowledging that many of the points you enumerated above all really good ones!!
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Get to know your neighbours, dont just think of yourselves as mothers, think of your selves as neighbours also. Help those around you who need help and you will find a village.
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I could not be happier, the path to a village for everyone is within all of our control. I completely agree, Penelope.
Neighborly mindsets are so essential to moving out of this phase we are in!